现在的社会对于男孩期许的责任比较大，他们将来除了要承担更多的家庭责任外，社会责任和压力也在与日俱增。世上的财富永远不会绝对平均，有富就有穷。适当让男孩受点穷，特别是在小时候体验一下“穷”的滋昧，才能激励孩子一生奋进，为自己努力创造富裕的生活。
男孩“穷”养是指让男孩从小多历练，多明白生活的艰辛，将来能够肩负重任。从小养成的习惯会伴随人一生，在孩子成长初期培养他有爱心、乐于助人、正直善良、勤俭节约的品质，会使他受益终身，成为蕴藏在他内心深处的取之不尽的资本。心理学家威廉·詹姆士说过：“播下一个行动，收获一种习惯：播下一种习惯，收获一种性格；播下一种性格，收获一种命运。”"Now the expectations of social responsibility for the boy is relatively large, they will assume in addition to more family responsibility, social responsibility and the pressures are increasing. The world's wealth is never absolute average, there are the rich the poor. Appropriate for boys by the point of poverty, especially in the childhood experience "poor" ignorant of AIDS, in order to stimulate a child's Endeavor for their efforts to create a prosperous life.
Boy "poor" is to keep young boys experience more, and more to understand the hardships of life, will be able to take responsibility. Childhood habit is accompanied by a person's life, the early growth of the child to develop his caring, helpful, honest kind, practice quality, will benefit from his life, hidden in the depths of his heart to become inexhaustible capital . Psychologist William James said: "sow an action, reap a habit: sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny." "